… and here; or living ‘in the here and now’. Can’t be blogging, as this is pretty distant from living in the here and now, isn’t it? Is here and now actually in cyberspace and not in, what is sometimes called the ‘real world’? Alright then, init?
This question exercises me. I’m sure that the FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) can be safely ignored, as something on social media being of real importance is remote. I wonder if the digital natives lost touch with the first five senses, skipped the sixth and latch on to an inimical sense of cybertouch. Well, what of myself? How do I try to live in the now? I’m quite happy leafing through a book, what I miss these days is a nice cafe to hibernate. But I must admit that usually, it is much more of inane interruption rather than immersion. I think I know why that is the case, because they usually don’t play the right sort of music. Therefore it is neither ‘here and now’, nor is it ‘then and there’!
My surmise is that living in the now, is quite difficult, unless you are a student preparing single mindedly for exams, or are exploring something of deep interest… Atleast I can’t think of anything else. So for most of us, we will be living in neither now or then…. Or maybe I’m missing the point. I must stop rambling… ttyl.
STOP: , BUT, I can’t…. living in the moment. Here is something I just happened to bump into last night. I’ve not read the book, but it promises much. ‘Permanent Present Tense’ by Suzanne Corkin A somewhat literal perspective of our topic: In 1953, 27-year-old Henry Gustave Molaison underwent an “experimental psychosurgical” procedure—a targeted lobotomy—in an effort to alleviate his debilitating epilepsy. The outcome was unexpected—when Henry awoke, he could no longer form new memories, and for the rest of his life would be trapped in the moment.
I hazard that the other other Friday bloggers will have a more constructive perspective: Sanjana, Padmum, Raju, Maria, Shackman , Ramana and Conrad.
Oct 01, 2020 @ 23:08:38
Just wait till you are as old as I am and you will be able to.
Oct 02, 2020 @ 03:01:27
I am with Ramana. Natural progression has its way.
Oct 02, 2020 @ 13:44:58
Just made an interesting (I’m fairly sure) update to the blog.
Oct 02, 2020 @ 20:12:13
I hope that you are not suggesting that we undergo the same surgery!
Oct 02, 2020 @ 23:26:30
I don’t know the book, but I had heard of the case. I think I prefer focusing now by choice!
Oct 15, 2020 @ 04:12:12
That fellow who woke up from the lobotomy had no choice but to live in the now, poor thing. I think the Rosemary Kennedy experience has gone down in the annals of horror. A lobotomy is something to be avoided at all costs, methinks. As for FOMO – I do suffer from that at times, But I always bring myself back to common sense in the end. I think……